The effects of the Dowry system in India.
Slide 1 The Effects of the Dowry System in India What is meaning of dowry “Dowry” in the sense of the expression contemplated through the Dowry Prohibition Act is a demand for property of valuable security having an inextricable nexus with the marriage, i.e., it is a consideration from the side of the bride’s parents or relatives to the groom or his parents and/or guardian for the agreement to marry the bridetobe. Causes of Dowry System 1. GreedExpectation: When the marriage ceremony talks are initiated, a major sector of the society holds the thought that it is the event for extortion from the bride’s family. Several reasons are cited including the dowry is being demanded to compensate the costs of the groom’s education and liability. The primary reason behind such desperate measures can be justified through the greed factor., 2. Religious Dictates Religious do not condone interreligious marriages or even between different religious sects and a suitable groom has to be found from the same religious backgrounds. These restrictions limit the number of suitable matches. Boys of marriageable age with desirable qualifications become a prize and this in turn encourages the practice of the catch being caught by the highest bidder. 3. Social Status The ancient India was quite liberal in the event of gift exchange during marriage. However, at present, the dowry amount and inkind gift exchange has led to depletion in status of women in the society, and led to depiction of social stance through the networth exchanged. Yet again, the bride’s family try to pay it out owing to the fact that losing a marriage proposal would deteriorate their status in the society. 4. Status of Women It is quite obvious that women’s status in the society is not an equal one. The plight doesn’t end here. Rather, the society owes its infrastructure buildup to the effective contribution of both genders alike. However, it is significantly ignored and the ultimate sufferers are the women in such setup. The dowry system is the brainchild of such mindset and is the primary reason behind the plight of women in the nation. 5. Illiteracy With a literacy rate of 74.04% in the country, it is quite valid to consider it the primary cause for different social evils. Being from the segment that is not knowledgeable about the laws and legislation, they face several atrocities owing to dowry exchange practices. They are left with little or no choices and have to meet the demands of the groom’s family, which when not met, leads to exploitation of the women. Effect Of Dowry System 1. Injustice towards girls Dowry bears a huge financial obligation for the bride’s family. A girl child is viewed a possible source of drain on the family’s finances, ultimately an onus. Girls are often marginalized in the areas of education where boys of the family are given preference. They are thrust towards domestic chores from a very early age. A host of restrictions are imposed on them in the name of family honor and they are made to stay indoors. 2. Economic burden Getting a girl married is associated with a hefty amount of money by Indian parents due to direct or subtle demands for dowry by the groom’s family. Families often borrow heavily, mortgage properties leading to major decline in economic health. 3. Gender inequality The idea of paying dowry in order to get a girl married generates an increased sense of inequality among the genders, placing men superior to women. Young girls are kept from schools while their brothers are given access to education. They are regarded incompetent for roles other than housework and are often discouraged from taking up jobs. Their opinions are suppressed, not valued or ignored more often than not. Physical and behavioral restrictions are imposed on girls that are completely natural for boys. 4. Violence against women Contrary to hopeful parents, dowry is often not a onetime pay up. Demands are continuously made by the husband’s family who consider the girl’s family as a never ending source of finance. Inability by the girl’s family often leads to verbal abuse, domestic violence and even deaths. Brides being burned by the inlaws are hardly a novelty in this country. Continuous physical and mental torture instigates women to go into depression and commit suicide. 2016 figures indicate that in India, 20 women die every day due to dowry related issues. 5. Deteriorating financial status of bride’s family Dowry doesn’t affect the bride alone. Rather, its ordeal extends to bride’s parents and they have to bear the financial demands of their counterparts to ensure wellbeing of their child. With regular demands from the groom’s family, reports of suicides are yet again common in the country. Needless to say, this social evil should necessarily be eradicated for the society and the nation. How we can solve this problems 1. Education: Education is the primary catalyst of growth in any nation. If we have to reach out across the nation and make sure the mainstream community is at par with the nation’s prospects, education is a necessity. Lack of education leads to irresponsible decisions leading to financial exploitation from a marriage relation. Dowry system is a social evil and owes its origination to ignorance and illiteracy. Eradicating this evil is not possible without educating the society. 2. Making women selfdependent The female sect of our society is an active contributor in the development of the home, the society and the nation as a whole. It hampers their development and thought process. Hence, ensuring employment opportunities for the female sect and making education feasible seems the first step to ensure annihilation of dowry system from the society. In the long run, legislations will turn out to be effective, if crimes are reported, and a well educated society inclusive of selfdependent women will ensure robust reporting of dowry related crimes. 3. Gender Equality To ensure removal of dowry system from the nerves of our system, gender equality is the third step. Educating children about the drawbacks of dowry system, and making sure that they inculcate the spirit to boycott it, is the longterm solution to the issue. To eradicate this evil, we need to learn and educate others about the illeffects of it and it can be achieved by providing equal rights to both genders. Well, granting equal employment opportunities won’t be enough. 4. Government Initiatives Government is the body which holds the key to development of a nation. It is the formulator of laws and executes them to make sure people follow them for the betterment of the society. Dowry system has been a part of the society since time eternal. The government has made legislation to limit the dowry exchange. THANKS
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